High’s
1. Kindergarteners at Power Child. Power Child is the name of the children’s home that we volunteered at for the first week. Every day around 11am, anywhere from 0 to 130 kindergarteners come and spend a couple of hours using Power Child’s facilities (soccer field, playground, toys, etc.) and playing with Power Child staff. After four days of interacting with these absolutely adorable little 5-year olds, I’ve come to realize that we don’t necessarily need language to communicate with one another. Many of these kids knew minimal English if any and spoke Xhosa, a language I definitely cannot speak. But I could tell when they were thirsty, when they wanted to be held, or when they pooped in their pants (actually, that one I couldn’t tell until someone else told me, but still). Their facial expressions, body language, and actions were things that are found universally in children and adults all over the world. The purity and innocence of these kindergarteners highlighted the significance and beauty of these universal qualities.
2. Soccer “Sista.” It was one of those days when there were very few kids at Power Child and there was nothing for me to do besides sit on the bench and stare out the window at the elementary school boys playing soccer. I was super bored though so I decided to just walk out to the field and ask if I can join (actually, I asked if they can teach me how to play). It must have been weird. There I was, a pale Asian girl, definitely a decade older and at least a foot taller than they, asking if I can join in their game of soccer. But one kid laughed and answered okay. He claimed he was a professional and would take me on his team so he can teach me to play soccer. Of course, I barely improved, but it was the best game of soccer I’ve ever played. The kids called me “sista” and gave me high-fives just for kicking the ball in the right direction. The very next day, while passing by Power Child’s soccer field, one of the kids shouted “Sista! Remember me?” and yelled his name while pointing to himself. And I thought, how could I forget them and our short but meaningful friendships that overcame differences in age, race, gender and soccer abilities?
3. Coaching Soccer. The only sport I’ve ever played is field hockey freshman year of high school, when they didn’t hold tryouts; after that, I stuck to marching band. I am positive I can’t run a mile in under 10 minutes. At Power Child, I lost soccer matches against both a 7-year old and 10-year old. But the second to last day of volunteering, the soccer coach made me his assistant and the little children followed me around calling me “coach.” It was an awesome feeling.
Low’s
1. An Almost All-Nighter. The second day of Reach Out, I stayed up until 6:30am working on a paper. I then went to bed until 8 to get up in time for a huge breakfast before the first day of volunteering. Surprisingly, I wasn’t too tired during the day (someone told me it has to do with adrenalin or something), but then I crashed later that night.
2. Sun-burn. Do not let the clouds trick you; the sun can still get you through them.
3. Departure. This may sound corny, but I don’t care. I cannot believe how quickly the time flew by and hate hearing that our Reach Out group has only three days in South Africa before returning to New Haven. I want to keep playing with the 5-year olds at Power Child; I want to keep being the least talented soccer coach in all of Africa; and I want to stay in 80 degree weather! ROSA has been an amazing experience and its biggest low in my opinion is that it has to come to an end… Again, I apologize for the corniness.
- Yoonie Hoh